This morning I came across a new article that you’ve written in Yushu’s facebook. You wrote about a little girl that you’ve come to adore – struck with cerebral palsy, is deaf and dumb, dirty; and yet had the most adorable and innocent smile. You had spoken fondly of her before, because I believed that you were struck with her strength and determination to live.
Today, you wrote about how devastated you were when you learned that she had died suddenly, without saying goodbye. You wrote that you had cried, and you were angry with God. You showed the human side of you – that even a professional psychologist can have emotions like everyone else do. You wrote with such emotions, that it made me tear too.
I remembered the time when you were told that I had wanted to take my own life. You were so concerned and worried, but I can never imagine how you would have really felt then. When you told me that the decision is in my own hands, I could sense the sadness in your voice – an unmistaken grief. I could also recognize the plea that I will hang on. You have done all you could, and you had trusted me to do mine.
I remembered our final session; how before parting – you wrapped your arms around me and I swore it was the best hug that I had ever received. You then looked into my eyes, and said… “You take care, alright? See you around!” There was such love, such warmth…that I really did not want to let go. Whenever I feel down, I remembered that hug…and realized how much I missed it.
Rachel, you’ve brought so much meaning to my life. You’ve helped me to see life as it really is. You made me realize that there is hope. You’ve left a footprint in my life that can never be replaced. I used to not understand why would you stand by me so tirelessly, and without complain. You refused to give up on me. You refused to let me go until you’re sure that your continued presence will not do me good. You said that you’re just like a paper, that I can use you until I don’t need you anymore…and then leave.
I asked God for an angel to rescue me. I never thought that it would be you.
Your selfless acts – both for me and to those suffering in Yushu…have earned my utmost respect. You had asked for nothing in return; knowing that we can never ever pay you for what you’ve done for us. You always had God in mind.
Thank you for letting our paths cross. Thank you for being obedient. Thank you for giving me a new lease of life.